a case for clothing

I think that we can agree that clothing is generally better than none. It protects us from the elements, other people, blah, blah, etc. Some of us love clothing; some of us don't care; some of us love it, but wonder if we really should care at all. My answer is yes. Yes we should care; and here's why:

I used to worry that if I were to start dressing with more care then others would see me as the kind of person who cares about what other people think. "Guess what:" said the voice inside my head whom I've named Steve, "choosing to not dress in a certain way for fear that other people will think that you fear what they think of you is exactly that: caring about what other people think about you. Get over it, and put on those wing-tips."

People will think something of me regardless, and, to an extent, I can help shape in their mind what they think of me. Manipulative? Nope. It's just taking PR into your own hands. Not only can it help shape how others see you, but how you see yourself.

It doesn't mean that you have to buy expensive clothing or read Vogue. It means that you make the conscious decision of what message you're going to send to others and to yourself.

I don't have to wear a dress shirt and blazer to work, but it makes me feel a little more distinguished, a little more confident, and a little more capable. Oh, no! What if other people notice? Good. What if someone someone compliments you? Grand. What if someone asks why you're dressed up? Tell them that you knew that you'd see them and that you wanted to dress for the occasion. Instead of putting on nicer clothes just for that date where you want to impress, dress to impress everyday, because you never know whose attention you'll want to grab when you go out.

I'll shut up now, but, seriously: since we have to wear clothes, and since others will form opinions of us anyway, we might as well put our best foot forward and help them see the intelligent, confident, and capable person hidden somewhere in there.

Note the difference.


As Joey Ramone said: "Hey! Ho! Let's go!"
Wear it well,
Adam

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I walk the line

I have a problem: my interests are all over the map and each one of them has its own style and look that appeals to me. For example, in a previous post I mentioned that I love music and that it influences my personal style. Sinatra is a good example: I love his voice, his music, and his style. I'd be a happy camper if I could wear a sweet three-piece or tuxedo for the rest of my days:

Minus the beard though.
Fun fact: I've been told by two different people that If I were to grow a beard I would look like Jafar from Disney's Aladdin or Satan. Conclusion: I'll continue to shave.

On the flipside of my coin of interests, we find newer sounds and looks from bands like The Strokes:

Whenever I go shopping I normally don't buy anything because I can't decide if I want to get some patent leather lace-ups or new hi-tops that already look 5 years used. What to do?
My current wardrobe has some pieces from each camp, but is a little heavier on the shirt and tie side. This week I'm going to go for both looks, with some days focusing on the classy business side and other days on the bold cover of Rolling Stone Magazine side. I'll post photos each day as I sport them to school and work where I'll confuse my coworkers with the bipolarity of my choices from one day to the next.
Until then, wear it well.
Adam

(photos from H&M and NME.com respectively)

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